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SMH: Fantasia confess abortion for Antwuan Cook…

23 Nov

According to RadarOnline, Fantasia took the stand yesterday in court and confessed she aborted the child of her married lover,  Antwuan cook.  Antwuans soon-to-be ex-wife is suing Fantasia for Alienation of Affection, which allows the spouse to sue the “home wrecker”.

Fantasia claims to have had the abortion done around the time of her suicide attempt.  In court, Fantasia denied any knowledge of him being married stating that they had a relationship, “on and off for about 11 months”, but thought he was separated at the time. The interesting part about all this is Fantasia’s still seeing Cook. 

I don’t know what to say about this messy situation except to give some advice to my ladies out there.  If you’re dating or sleeping with a man who claims he’s divorced or separated, wait until he shows you those papers or move on.  As women we know how men can lie so why get caught up in unnecessary heartache and stress. What is it with some woman who can’t leave taken men alone? Its one thing if you don’t care about the other party, which explains a lot about you, but care about yourself enough to know you deserve better.

One thing I can say about Fantasia, is if the rumors are true, then whatever happens to her from here on out she brought on herself.   And don’t try any more suicide attempts either cause we won’t pity you.  How does the saying go…fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.  What more does it take for her to get rid of his Ass. SMDH!!!!

Fantasia & Paula Cook meet…

12 Nov

According to RadarOnline.com, Fantasia and Paula Cook sat down in mediation for nearly 12 hours, to try to come to a resolution before going to court.  Unfortunately things didn’t go well for Fantasia as she probably thought. 

RadarOnline reports,

 American Idol winner Fantasia Barrino met with her boyfriend’s scorned wife, Paula Cook, earlier this month in an attempt to keep the details of Barrino’s alleged affair with Antwaun Cook private and out of the Mecklenburg County courthouse, RadarOnline.com has exclusively learned.

A source close to the situation says the two women attempted to settle their dispute through private mediation but the ladies were unable to reach a settlement, propelling Cook to move forward with a civil lawsuit against the singer.

“Fantasia and Paula were in mediation for nearly 12 hours on November 1,” a source close to the situation told RadarOnline.com.

“They didn’t settle because Fantasia refuses to acknowledge that she was aware of Paula’s marriage to Antwaun when she started dating him, and Paula is adamant that she knew.”

According to the source, Fantasia and Paula are set to meet in a North Carolina courthouse again on November 22.

“Fantasia was prepared to pay Paula as much as $100,000 to settle during their mediation, but it fell through,” another source told RadarOnline.com.

“Paula plans on going all the way and is going to sue Fantasia for Alienation of Affection.”

Alienation of Affection is a law still recognized by only seven states – one of which is North Carolina – where an abandoned spouse can file lawsuit against the party responsible for the failure of their marriage, typically the adulterous spouse’s lover.

Paula has filed for divorce from her philandering husband, who is still dating Fantasia.

Wow what an embarrassment!  It’s clear that Paula is a wife scorned but can you blame her.  If you were in her shoes would you sue the other woman if you can? What do you think about the alienation of affection law…is it fair to sue the “other woman”? 

$100,000 isn’t a bad settlement but I’m sure Mrs. Cook plans on getting more once this goes all the way.  Do you agree that the wife should sue the mistress? My guess is if this law was accepted in all states, more woman would think twice before meddling with a married man.  Then again this could be a set-up…I’m just saying!

Anyways…I’m up in the air with this…lemme know you thoughts?